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Job
Interview Active Listening
by: Jay Bauder
During
a job interview, a potential employer asks, Can
you take on more than one project at a time? If
you respond, Yes, you may want to rethink
that answer. According to Dynamic Listening: Interview
Skills, a computer based training module from Mindleaders
in Columbus, Ohio, you should avoid one-word or one-sentence
answers.
Be
specific. And speak money-language. Heres a preferred
answer to the question above, In general, depending
upon the type and length of projects, I believe in efficiently
handling more than one project at a time. This could
save a company as much as 30%.
Lets
check out the definition of active listening skills
and learn more to help with your next interview
Active
Listening Skills
Just
as everyday speaking is not the same as
public speaking; listening is not the same
as active listening. Active listening means two things:
analysis and response to the message being communicated.
An
active listener maintains eye contact and good posture
with a slight lean towards the speaker. During the interview,
the listener nods, smiles and takes notes. Be ware,
however, that a daydreamer or pseudolistener, can adopt
these behaviors. So a listeners physical response
does not necessarily mean good listening skills are
at work.
Nonverbal
communication, more than just the nod or smile, is important.
Gestures, appearance, timing, voice responses, facial
expressions, spatial distance all affect how
the speaker (or interview) interprets the listener.
So a person preparing for a job or work project interview
should consider the cultural climate and norms of society
of the interviewer. In short, perceived active listening
based on nonverbal signals can vary from culture to
culture.
Especially
in this age of such great cultural diversity, be courteous
of others regardless of cultural, sexual or societal
backgrounds. If you are a woman and get to a door before
a man, open it. If your interviewer doesnt speak
English very well and looks puzzled at your words, go
back and explain yourself again in different words and
re-establish a good communication exchange.
Note:
a major part of active listening is paraphrasing. Its
not the same as summarizing. A summary is a shortened
version of the original message, focusing on the main
point. To paraphrase means to re-state the message in
your own words.
Active
listeners take notes by paraphrasing or restating what
the speaker said in their own words, and summarizing
main points. A good listener is not the same thing as
a silent listener. Good listeners ask questions, even
something like, Is this an accurate paraphrase
of you have said? to let the speaker know that
you understand the message being communicated.
About
The Author
Jay Bauder is the web owner of http://www.jobs-in.com
Jobs | Job Search Resources, a website that provides
information and resources on searching for jobs nationwide.
You can visit his website at: Job Search.
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